MaNy of us aRe sO caUght up wid ouR daiLy lives, dat we often negLect oNe of the important peopLe we have... nOt just ouR famiLies (although yes they are very important) but oUr freNds…. Many coupLes feaR and hOpe dat they aRe nOt negLecting their betteR haLves,,, but few wonder if they are neglecting their friends... And even if they feel that they are not doing a great job keeping up with their friends, they just shrug and say…. well, it can't be helped.
BUt what we shouldn't forget is that we should not underestimate the importance of friendship../ Make it a point to stay in touch with friends, even if you can do so using your cellphone… Text oR call them every now and again to find out if everything is all right, and to let your friends know that although you are busy, you still think of them and will be there for them if they ever need you. They are not rock bottom on your list of priorities.
You have to remember that your needs are also important….
Don't lose sight of yourself when looking after your better half. Don't make yourself last on your list of priorities, because you are only making yourself more vulnerable and weaker. Also if you take good care of yourselves, your special someone will have a more fulfilled person for a partner, which is healthier for the relationship. …
I know that saying it is easier that doing it but not making sure that everything is well balanced can lead to a more complicated situation. A situation that can lead to circumstances that could have been prevented in the first place….
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